I remember you mentioning how this figure journey would soon impact all other areas…. Thanks for your help.
A: Wow, great question! Let’s see being in a loving, supportive relationship is indescribable and something that I want wish upon everyone! You are absolutely right that I do mention all the time how so many things in your life fall into place when you embark upon a fitness journey. I believe in this 100%. Being involved in this amazing life and journey, allows you to see just what you are capable of achieving. You can a sense of personal accomplishment, self esteem, power YOU have over situations, yourself, etc. You basically are able to experience the power of YOU. YOU are the one in control of your actions, decisions, etc. When you follow through with any program and see it through day in and day out, it is such an amazing sense of accomplishment that carries over into give you the mental and physically strength to know how amazing you are. When you are 100% confident and happy with who you are, in every which way, things just fall into place. You can not be happy with anyone else until you are truly completely happy with who YOU are. When you come to the point of knowing in your heart you are complete, someone else will come into your world who will be that perfect match. You both don’t need each other to fill voids or to leach on to each other for one reason or another but rather you just work and things just flow! I will never forget when Michael and I were first dating and he said to me… “What is really weird about our relationship is I love you so much but at the same time I don’t need you….” Okay so this totally had me confused and took me a while to understand but then I got it and actually felt the same way. We both love each other and couldn’t imagine not being with each other but at the same time we don’t “need each other”. Another words, he is happy with who he is and I am happy with I am, both of us are happy as individuals … therefore when one fulfilled person meets another fulfilled person, the end result is nothing but support, love, and everything in between. When someone needs someone else, they may act in a way that is not necessarily ideal, because they are afraid and they act in fear. When you do not have those feelings of fear and have nothing to lose, there is nothing to be afraid of so things just work! You both work with each other and support each other but there aren’t any voids to be filled, on either side. When you come to the conclusion that you are truly a happy person and could be happy the rest of your life, just being you and doing what you do, someone will come into your life to compliment how you feel. From there, things just unfold and work. I truly can’t explain it any other way other than to say, things just work and flow without thought, work, and just as if things were meant to be. When “that” person comes into your life, you will just know, trust me! It is like a puzzle piece, it just fits and you can’t explain it but things just line up and work! When you know you will know! The biggest piece of advice I can offer you is to continue working on YOU and being the best you can be for YOU and not anyone else. When you stay true to yourself, I promise you, things will just happen! Stay positive and believe! Things will unfold and happen as they should!
Hope that helps!! Great question 🙂
Q: What does it feel like exactly to be in a loving, supportive, engaging relationship? I would love to know the most descriptive details as well as any info on what work you did inside yourself to allow that kind of man to come to you. The way I manifest things is to put myself in the frequency of that thing so that I’m a vibrational match. I can’t say I’ve ever experienced a great relationship so I don’t know how it feels or how it looks, etc.
